OK, the plane has safely landed and I have caught up on the replies. Not so much negative shit anymore.
The one thing I would like to point out is the referred the girl to Unseen but he DID NOT refer her to the "snakes" She found the ad on her own.
CDSmith, you are absolutely right with every word you type. Unseen and I both follow the same guidelines you mention but the girls sometimes have to find out the hard way. It sucks but it is reality.