You could sell other things besides porn. There are tons of other programs - that way you can be considered a Internet Marketing Professional vs. Porn Peddler.
I have noticed many people are hypocrites about tons of stuff - if you give her an out - something she can believe in - then you may be ok. People might get hung up on I SELL PORN, but they wouldn't get hung up if you were an exec for yahoo taking money to promote porn sites. The difference is that they do other things as well. If she really oves you - she may overlook the porn aspect if you do other things as well.
I started selling personals and other stuff before Porn (and still do). I tell some people EXACTLY what I do, others I simply say - "I will market just about anything on the Internet - I have sold everything from books to credit cards to online personals." If the asked about porn - I would tell them the truth, but they are just another client to me - if the church of st. whatever wants to pay me $40 per member - I would promote them too.
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