women who cheat often love their man/husbands but may not connect on a certain level anymore; sex, understanding, lazyness, etc etc.
doesnt mean that they're not in love with the person, just means that after so long with someone, something has died/faded from what it used to be for many years.
most women (and i can see their point) would rather keep the man they love, a stable family, 2 incomes, no breaking up/divorce drama crap, and just go and seek someone to fullfull that 'need' that had died/faded away over time.
it could be a male friend who is there to listen to her, or someone just holding hands in public because the woman misses public display of affection, or a new sexual partner/friend with benefits because the guy is not performing, not performing good enough, or doesnt care to have sex at all anymore.
you'd be surprised what goes on behind closed doors of the most "perfect" looking familys.
