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Because (in my experience) women want two different men in their lives: The ones that can provide a stable home environment that they can raise children in securely (the 'marrying type') and the ones that make them feel those extremes of emotion that let them know they're alive (the 'bad boy').
Most women will go through a lot of bad boys before settling down with a marrying type, or will vassilate between the two, or (rarely) will 'tame' a bad boy into a husband.
Women also encounter other types of men... for example, the spineless wimp sitting there being some chick's emotional sponge is neither the bad boy NOR marrying type. He's the 'easily exploitable wussyboi'. This is the type of guy who'll hang around, labels himself a 'nice guy', and tries to hide any hint of sexuality so he can do a stealth fuck with her when her guard is down (he thinks, chances of that happening are pretty minimal). He'll probably even pay for dinner or drinks while she dumps all the baggage of her 'bad boy' exploits on him... "Oh, I fucked him stupid for like 7 times over the weekend but yesterday he was tongueing down that skank from the coffee shop blah blah boo hoo".
Anyways, that's the closest thing I've seen to a reason why... when a chick wants a bad boy to make her feel alive, to give her that 'ovarian resonance', no wimpy little mamas boy is going to cut it. She wants to feel extreme, and the always-dependable man won't provide that... unless he's a closet psychotic or something.
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