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Nubiles · 06-21-2004, 09:46 AM

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Originally posted by Tam
Actually this is probably the most truth I have seen on here in awhile...... LOL

Women DO want to be noticed, and I say this from experience. BUT when it becomes a focus then we get a little uncomfortable and start thinking that we are looked at as a slut, great in bed, and god knows what else. It becomes more of what we LOOK like than what we ARE!! It's nice to know that we turn a few heads, it is a good feeling, but when the FOCUS becomes the very thing we want attention for, then it becomes very uncomfortable and we then want to be seen for our inward beauty and not the outward appearances.

NO we don't want to be pawed at or gawked at or anything, but it is a little of a turn on that you have all this attention and people think you are hot. We WANT to dress nice and we want the attention, BUT we also want to be seen as having a brain as well as a set of tits...... and it is a fine line you walk on when you are doing this.

When women dress down, they are seen as trailer trash, when they dress up, they are seen as some sex object that hasn't a brain in her head. This is the way people are and no matter what you try and put on it, it is just the way it is.

But you know? It goes the same way for men as well, men just don't see it as often because MOST women aren't as aggressive as men are with their approach to this, they get in huddles and gawk and talk and such...... but not as many will go and approach the men as men will.

Women have the SAME talks in their groups as men do, they just don't ACT on these things as often. LOL

So guys, don't think because you are guys, that you aren't being looked at and talked about any less, you are, we just aren't AS aggressive with it as you are. We're just more discreet about it....... to YOU!!!! LMAO

I have spent a LOT of time in bars, and I mean A LOT, and always straight. So I would spend the entire time my husband was doing his shows, watching people. Watching how they interact, watching their mannerisms...... and women are JUST as bad....... and any HONEST woman will agree with me here. Spend some time in the women's bathroom at any bar and you will see what I am talking about....... rotfl

I adore people and there is nothing that turns me on more, not sexually, than to go into a place where there are a lot of people in a situation such as a bar setting and just watching....... not drinking, not talking to anyone, just watching....... it is a major trip.

Wow, your husband is a lucky guy to have an intelligent woman who understands the program . . . . . of course thank god for the girls who dont get it, as they are the easiest to game