Hope it works out for your grandparents. Even if you can't or can support them, they probably wouldn't accept it anyways.
If you live close to them. Do little favors for them. My mother-inlaw (which I don't get along with) is on a very limited budget but every couple of weeks I tell her my car is broken and can I borrow hers. I really don't need it but I fill tank up.
She is a Gin drinker, and I buy her bottles saying you know I hate Gin and another client gave me this, and I can't tell the client.
Everyone in the family are doing these little white lies so at birthday and holiday times, she still can afford gifts to her grand children.
