Sadly I could tell you how to go to a rave, get pussy and ecstasy or anything else you need. I was into that 'scene' a few years ago and even have content I've sold from it. Anyway, check out
http://www.ravelinks.com You can find any commercial rave in the downtown/San Diego/riverside area.
Also, remember to bring ID, atleast 50 dollars -- and be prepared for the 1 of the weirdest experiences of your life. If you've never done ecstasy you might want to try it (to enjoy the rave), if you just want to see retarded idiots running around hugging & kissing, go sober.
Also there is a rave called EDC coming very soon you would very much enjoy it. Also there is a rave going on right now called 'Almost better than Sex.' It's at the Orion in downtown LA (8th & Spring)