Sad stuff... its more along the lines of the guy playing God in her world:
CONTROLLING BY DEFINING HER REALITY: This form of control is very oppressive. When he tells his partner what reality is, he is playing God, he is discounting the partner's experience by defining "THE TRUTH"-which in fact is a LIE. Some examples: That's not what you said or That's not what I said or That's not what you did or That's not what I did or That's not what happened. That's not what you saw. That's not what you felt. That's not why you did it. I know you better than you know yourself!
I've never been in a relationship like this, so I have no idea what kinda advice to give. ALmost wish I wasn't asked!
How do you ditch a control freak?