Pretty fucked up situation. I know it's terrible now, but my best friend and I used to tell guys that we were 19 all the time when we were 15. I didn't realize then just how bad it was. I guess most girls don't. Of course, we never had sex with any of those guys. We kissed a few, but that's all.
You know, though, without seeing an ID there really isn't much of a way to tell how old a girl is. For example, there was this girl we went to highschool with. She went to the tanning bed and lied in the sun alot for several years (from the time she was around 10) and it totally RUINED her skin. She had wrinkles and her skin was leathery... the whole deal. She used to go through the lunch line at school and new/substitute lunch ladies would try to give her the teacher's discount every single time without fail. No kidding. She was 16 years old and she looked AT LEAST 28. Could have passed for 35.
This is one way casual sex can get you into trouble. If you take the time to get to know someone before you sleep with them, you have time to get to know where they work (or go to school!), where they live, who their friends are, etc. If more people took the time to get to know each other before hopping into bed things like this would be less likely to happen. Sure, it could still happen, but it would be ALOT less likely.
I say it's a good idea to get a chick to let you come back to HER place rather than taking her somewhere else. If she doesn't want to let you, it's probably because she has a boyfriend or husband at home... or parents!
Sorry your friend got in trouble. That's a bad situation.
