It is totally amazing to me that any woman would join one of those puke dollar sites (I mean duke dollars

) My experience is that women hate the gunk sites. Women will allow a lover to gunk her face because she knows he likes it. Women are also submissives and maybe have a history of being with a guy that gunks but women DO NOT wake up in the morning and say "heh I want a guy to spill his cum on my face". She will wake up and want him to spill his cum (never thinking of it quite that way) to orgasm.
The one thing 99% of you are forgetting is that adult is maturing. We are no longer getting joins from the newbie on the net. Now we are just as likely to get joins from very experienced surfers. A woman that has joined a number of sites for the last 5 years will widen her search, explore farther and go for trials etc. They might have liked one tiny thing on the tour and can overlook the gunk part. Women are used to choosing from among the "not exactly perfect" sites.
I am surprised you even care that women are joining. Maybe this was merely spam on your part. Certainly you will not get for women marketers putting up banners. As a collective group we have determined that it would be a select few women that would be interested in your site. Maybe you just had your 2 female signups for the year
Now this is not to say that women do not like hard sites. I personally do not think your sites are hard. Women really like BDSM...and in particular BD or SM sites. Women are kinksters too, trust me I know this. I have been marketing to the kinky women for quite some time. I also market to couples and straight women. Been marketing to em for over 6 year now and not once has a woman emailed to say "ohhh please put up more gunk pictures".
My vote is its his wifes card. Just a note... in my for women paysites there have always been large percentages of members that seem to be male. Atleast 30%. You can say they are gay or they are women using their partners cards.