Dopy.... it's cool. Gary's comments were not intended to be rude or hurtful. I know this without having to guess, and I never took them that way. It's been a really hard and sad day here for both my girl and I, and the last thing I want is arguments over my thread... everyone that responded or had a comment has been great. The comments and thoughts from all of you brought my girl to tears for the better part of an hour. Thank you all... from both of us...