I'm sorry for your loss, merlin77. So many of you were kind to me when I needed it (
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=299119) and I'm sure you'll get support, too. The loss of a friend is tragic and whether or not she was drinking or speeding, I am sure you feel no different one way or the other about the loss. I wish you the best in dealing with this.
SpaceAce