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Originally posted by Furious_Male
At first glance it may not seem constructive. Perhaps it is morbid curiousity for some. The "what does he have that I dont have" type thing. But you can also see things about yourself that may help you down the road. What is he providing her with that you didn't because you couldn't or perhaps didn't want to. Were you to complacent etc. I think you get the point. It can help in future relationships.
By nature I am hard wired not to feel pain from social break ups like that. I rarely feel jealousy and when I do I channel it into something more productive. Most aren't like that and wouldn't understand.
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To do that you need to figure out some kind of logical pattern of the way the female brain works.
They don't always go by the 'he can give me something he can't' type of thing, they're strange creatures.