"Retard's Realm", hehehe... j/k
Seriously though I experience the same thing for quite a while now, especially "page loading too slowly". The thumbnail pages reviewer is well known for this sort of thing. From a webmaster point of view (I run a site under their mirrored gallery agreement) so I can see where they're coming from with the "slow galleries" and "not enough nudity" thing.
As for the untimely emails... nobody is perfect.
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