Dan S. can send a real shitload, doesn't ask for recips and has a member's submit. Don't know if he is seeking submitters at this time though. You better ask him over at AWI.
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AVS that converts AND sends traffic. Be a good guy and use my link:
ProAdult
(Fairly new, so you won't share the link list traffic with 10,000 other webmasters over there :D )