As a female, I would have to say #2, Joel. #1 looks like of dorky and #2 is cute, but he reminds me of my first cousin.
#2 looks a little like a combination of Christoper Atkins (from The Blue Lagoon) and Mark-Paul Gosselaar (Zack from Saved by the Bell). Although there really is something about his mouth or chin that I don't like. Maybe it's just that particular facial expression.