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Well the dish in this circumstance laid out the ground rules day one. We've both been married before and I've always lived with my partners. This time there's no living together, we try and limit our expectations of each other (as compared to other relationships I've been in). We've been together about 7 months and she has fooled around with a few girls but non of it went any where. She started a new job and started telling me about a new friend she met there. I knew that it was going to go someplace but didn't want to come across insecure. Then just the other day she said that they hung out and watched a movie and something clicked. The next night she slept at his house and I knew by premonition. So the door to the open relationship opened up and hit me right between the eyes. First reaction was to kill it and walk. Then a friend said give some time before making any decisions. Another friend said go out and get yourself a fuck buddy. I am attractive but when it comes to going out and "getting" a fuck buddy I'm not to sure how soon that will happen. She still has my heart and I'm not sure at this point if I still have hers or not. The worst part now is trying not to think about it all the time. Thank for all the feedback, please keep it coming.
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