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It <i>can</i> be a very cowardly thing in certain cases.... like the guy who waited for his girlfriend to go off to work in the morning, then he returned home with a buddy and a truck and moved all his stuff out and disappeared without notice, no chance for discussion, nothing. She's a pretty nice chick who didn't deserve that.
But it can also be a very smart thing to do in some instances. If you're at a point where you've tried to make it work but the person just doesn't give a shit about you or your efforts, if there is no respect coming back to you, if you're no longer happy.... then sometimes the right thing to do IS to get your ass in gear and just "up and leave". Why stay with someone who doesn't appreciate you?
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