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Old 04-20-2004, 08:55 PM  
Kassidy
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Originally posted by graphicsbytia


I was wrong when I said you discussed the way I raise my children.. sorry

but about the tongue piercings.. you say your not for forcing them to do anything.. but you are forcing them to bend to your will.. I mean.. it's a forced issue if it's something they want to do and you wouldn't allow it.. that's force..

look, I like you a lot eroswebmaster, and I don't want to make you angry.. if I'm going too far just say so and I'll shut up
'forcing them to bend to your will'? Please.

You're not preparing your children for the real world if you let them whatever the hell they want. There are expectations for behaviour and appearance in the real world. It's not the parents who set those boundaries and preconceptions, it's society.

If you let your 12 year old get her belly button and tongue pierced and dress like a hoochie, people are going to see her as a hoochie, regardless of whether she actually is one or not, and treat her as such. Some parents might think it's 'cute' or they're just trying to let their children 'express themselves' but they'll regret it when their 18 year old daughter is trying to support her 2 kids on her own by swinging on a pole every night...

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