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KimmyKim, lotsa good points there.
As far as age of people having sex you gotta understand that until recently in the human history equation people have been living past 25 on the long run. 100 years ago if a woman hadn't married by 18 she was considered old age! So we're not having sex younger, we're just not being responsible enough.
As for female victims of pimps, porn whatever, I can only say from my experience there's two sides to that story! I spent well close to 20 years helping battered women's programs. What I saw first hand made my head spin. 9 times out of ten the women who were being battered or abused were abusive themselves! It was a mad house!
They'ld caterwaller about how such-n-such did this-n-that to them and then turn right around and wallop some guy or kid or other woman. They'd even have a go at a judge or cop now and then.
After 20 years of this I've realized that the problem is making the right decisions and that comes from not blaming everybody else for the shit we're in. If the shit stinks, you stepped in it!
Sure there are people who can't defend themselves. Those younger or even elderly. They're the ones that get my attention. You wouldn't believe the amount of elderly abuse and scams nowadays. ( sure sure some of the old folks deserve it! They were abusive asswipes back in the day ).
So it's a case by case basis. We've gotta stop that blanket think: ' she was a princess of a girl until she fell in with the wrong crowd ' routine.
I've seen women walk right past a nice guy with a bright future to find the worst crack-head alcoholic abusive axe murderer they could find. Shack up with him and then complain he beat her and stole her money.
I have NO sympathy for a person that damned stupid.
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