Okay, my webdesigner/hosting guy (same person) took major offence to something I said, and I think im in bizarro world when im talking to him. So I figured the best way to see if im right or wrong is ask the masses and see whats up.
Here's our msn convo (notice the time frame in
RED):
9:29:22 PM Sean: As for new projects, I have another escort who just started working with me and she needs a website.
9:29:26 PM Sean: you interested?
9:29:55 PM Little Dragon: Of course bro, just lemme know what she needs, same deal
9:30:15 PM Little Dragon: I'll do it, then if she likes it, pay after that
9:32:21 PM Sean: okay, shes brand new.. so I dont even have a photo shoot scheduled for her yet. But im gonna get some pics done, I'll send em to ya, and we can get started then. I'll also email you with some links to other escort websites for an idea of what I want. Also, did you get the email I sent you about the domains?
9:47:19 PM Sean: hello?
10:56:22 PM Sean: well when you get back I'll be looking forward to your answers.
12:35:31 AM Sean: hello?
12:56:49 AM Little Dragon: hey
12:56:56 AM Sean: hey
12:57:12 AM Little Dragon: Sup
12:57:24 AM Sean: Just wondering, where ya took off to?
12:57:40 AM Little Dragon: Took puppy outside
12:57:43 AM Little Dragon: for a walk
12:57:49 AM Little Dragon: Just got back in
12:58:08 AM Sean: in the middle of our convo? You coulda told me you were heading out?
12:59:00 AM Little Dragon: Dude, I did not see any messages until I stepped in
12:59:11 AM Little Dragon: I'm not at my computer every minute
12:59:24 AM Little Dragon: If I saw your message I woulda typed brb
12:59:32 AM Little Dragon: So there was no convo
12:59:54 AM Sean: alright... so anyway, I was asking about the domains
1:00:03 AM Sean: did you get the email i sent you about the domains?
1:00:32 AM Little Dragon: Yes I got it
1:01:04 AM Sean: okay, do you know how I use cpanel to add a domain? Im not sure what I was doing wrong, but its not working for me. :S
1:01:33 AM Little Dragon: I haven't had time to follow up on it yet, I've been busy this afternoon, but I'll take a look now at ur control panel an see
1:02:45 AM Little Dragon: I'll redo it if I have to, so no worries
1:02:54 AM Sean: ok, thanks
1:03:54 AM Little Dragon: Btw my Msn is set to go on "Away" after 5 minutes of inactivity
1:05:31 AM Sean: im not going to go back and forth.. but you sent me a message, the second I recieved it.. I started typing a new message and sent it to you.. then a couple minutes later you were in away mode.. it seemed like we were going back and forth then all the sudden you dissapeared without saying anything. Its no big deal, it just at the time seemed like you were avoiding the question.
1:13:25 AM Little Dragon: The last message I sent you was "I'll do it, then if she likes it, pay after that " at 9:30:30pm, your next message was at 9:32:36, check your msn history, I didn't see that message becuz since I last sent u the message I have not been at the computer
1:14:34 AM Sean: Ok.. I'll leave it at that
1:20:09 AM Little Dragon Sean Dude, why would I avoid answering questions about your client's website, it's business for me. I didn't avoid anything.
1:20:34 AM Sean: lol. honestly man... I was never that upset in the first place. its all good.
So that was the end of our convo and the last time we spoke. This is the email I get from him.
When my puppy has to poopie and knocks to go outside, you expected that I stay on my computer "just in case" someone else online has a question to ask me, risking soiling my carpet? Or when my puppy knocks next time, I should be sure to start typing in my final parting salutations to all who I've been chatting with online. And didn't I say I had a unexpected chaotic circumstances to deal with? Sorry if my life isn't as cut-and-dry as you'd like. I didn't say you were a nut case. I said you appeared obsessive-compulsive, controlling. I already have a girlfriend -- I thought you were a guy. All I meant was, dude, lighten up. I figured if you had the nerve to complain to me about something so petty, I have the right to tell you to lighten up.
And finally, my reply:
I'm a reasonable person. A two minute lapse in a conversation when I am asking someone who I pay for their services, a question regarding their services, I, and most people would expect a response. I didnt go insane, I didnt get mad, I didnt accuse you of anything. I just said that my impression when you left was it seemed like you were avoidng me. You came back and said you saw things differently. Apparently if someone doesnt keep the convo rolling in a span of 2 minutes, the conversation is idle and doesnt require a parting salutation. Hey, thats FINE with me. Not everyone sees things the same way and I told you it was all good. Don't come down on me like im some nut case.
Now, am I in bizarro world or is this clown retarded? The only reason im asking is because he's accusing me of being controlloing, and if thats the case I seriously need to give my head a shake. I like to treat all people I work with good.
THANKS!