I don't think so.... Nice guys take getting used to, though.
I made two consecutive and equally stupid male decisions... each lasted 4 years and both were pricks.
I didn't date or see anyone for over a year, almost two, and when I did... I decided to try something new... if I met a guy that I didn't find immediately attractive and went against the grain of my usual taste, then I'd go out with him.
After 8 years of crap, I had to learn to believe in nice guys...that they were nice without an ulterior motive and genuine... so I had some nice guy therapy, and it worked out great
I absolutely love nice guys
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