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Elli · 03-26-2004, 12:02 AM

True, the picture story was priceless (and still is). So soon I forget.

I've known a few swingers in my time, as well, and they all agreed on one thing: The more stable your relationship is, the more fun swinging is. You need to be totally in love with your own partner and trust them 100% while wanting them to have as much fun as they can, knowing that the fun is with another person. That takes HUGE amounts of trust and whatnot to sustain, and most couples can't take the strain. Swinging will exacerbate (my word of the day) any preexisting cracks in a relationship if there are any.

And my point is... that obviously there's more to it than just sex. If it was just sex, the participants wouldn'tneed the trust, love, etc. They wouldn't need to be in a relationship at all. They would have a much better time being single and promiscuous.

How's that logic?

03-26-2004, 12:02 AM
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	True, the picture story was priceless (and still is). So soon I forget. I've known a few swingers in my time, as well, and they all agreed on one thing: The more stable your relationship is, the more fun swinging is. You need to be totally in love with your own partner and trust them 100% while wanting them to have as much fun as they can, knowing that the fun is with another person. That takes HUGE amounts of trust and whatnot to sustain, and most couples can't take the strain. Swinging will exacerbate (my word of the day) any preexisting cracks in a relationship if there are any. And my point is... that obviously there's more to it than just sex. If it was just sex, the participants wouldn'tneed the trust, love, etc. They wouldn't need to be in a relationship at all. They would have a much better time being single and promiscuous. How's that logic? __________________ email: [email protected]