doesnt matter, you left her twice in 3 months for a long period of time.
my grams cat (3 yrs old) just died...my gram went into ICU last week and the cat died 3 days later (the vets said Broken Heart).
Cats are VERY sensitive about being left alone when they are not used to it. They go into a panic mode. Just be affectionate with your cat , she'll be fine.
