LOL. Funny Stu... I think it all boils down to self esteem and and integrity (which is formed by life experiences)
A person with low self esteem will enjoy it when someone compliements, pays attention to them, etc. and will enjoy the extra attentiveness if they feel they're not getting that from their husband/wife.
A hot person might be jaded from ppl trying to hit on them cuz they're "hot."
Integrity is a result of all the crap you've experienced since you can remember.
So the answer is " no one really knows"
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