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Originally posted by phogirl69
Probably yes, unless they are extremely shy and or have social issues that makes them not able to get into relationships and or socialize. I know someone who is EXTREMELY pretty and she is turning 26 and never had a bf because she got abused when she was a child and has many issues now including an eating disorder and image distortion. She claims it has nothing to do with the abuse but I think it does.
And I know a guy (her brother) who is hot but he hasn't been with a girl in almost 6-7 years now because he got cheated on in the past (his best friend slept with his girl) and he is traumatized and scared of girls. This is a grown man of 23 years old who hides and runs into his room whenever any female comes over because he is so shy!!! The only way he getts of is porn...
People who are hot and have issues like this are really hard to get, but if you can get them, they will stay with you forever because they have so many issues that make it nearly impossible for them to find someone else. It's not their looks but mental issues that is holding them back. So I guess I'm one of those people with "issues" too.....
I'm pretty hot too  even if I say so myself, and I would never cheat because I'm anti-social and never EVER talk to guys hardly. When they hit on me, most of the time I don't even look at them, let alone say anything back. It's not that I'm stuck up, it's just a habit and a reflex. I also think that guys that hit on girls are pigs, if they hit on me they must on other girls too, and I don't like guys like that. There's nothing flattering about it.
So I guess you could say I have "issues" too...
Looks has nothing to do with it, it has to do with how socialbe u are. I know people who are very good looking (model caliber almost) who NEVER go anywhere, but just like to stay home and hide ALL THE TIME. They can never meet anyone because they NEVER go anywhere. But there's lots of ugly people who have confidence that go out all the time and aren't afraid to socialize and meet people.
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You're posts about these subjects and roommates are always really good, and she's right..
I think insecure people are more likely to cheat, or the people that are afraid to be alone, the minute they dont see something going well and fear they may end up alone, will usually cheat.