03-15-2004, 12:26 PM
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Reach for those stars!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Vancouver, BC
Posts: 17,991
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Originally posted by sherie
See Stuy, it's comments like "Guess I'm doomed" that are going to stand in your way. Those statements are a turn off. You have it right that the consensus says that you need to be confident. Women can smell confidence a mile away. In most cases if you are out having a good time laughing and all that stuff, that exudes confidence. Not being pushy is a good thing too. Women like a challange. (and NO that does not mean we like to be treated like shit. Just the women with low self esteem put up with that shit)
Like the people say, if you are just looking for a fuck then you are going to end up with some low quality woman (in most cases). And is that what you really want? Stop looking for it, women can also smell desperation.
Looks are certainly not everything, if your hot that might get you in the door, but if your a dickhead you will be leaving as fast as you arrived.
Attractive qualities are on the inside for the most part. And if you don't feel good about yourself, it's going to be difficult to have others feel good about you.
Your a great guy, you have a wonderful personality, you are funny and good looking. Now GET OUT THERE AND BE CONFIDENT.
PS. The guys that say they get laid every night DON'T. Someone that does doesn't talk about it! ;)
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thank you! Yeah, what she said!  |
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