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Originally posted by DarkJedi
"Don't ever ever ever get married. Live free"
I've known this guy since we were 8. sounds like solid advice
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Solid advice for sure.
The bad part about having kids, getting married, and falling in love (in whatever order it might happen to you) is eventually it's going to get really fucked up and turn into a big ass mess. If you believe statistics anyway.
It's enough of a pain in the ass to get a divorce when there are no kids involved and both of you are cool with the divorce.... I couldn't imagine going through one the dirty way -- with kids and high drama. Omfg.
So just be "married" without the paper.
Oh.. also be sure you maintain a seperate residence for your "wife" in the middle of your realtionship for a year or so to avoid common law marriages - paying ~12k for a year could be a lot cheaper than waking up one day and being legally married.
Note: Then again I am not an attorney... I'm not sure how common law marriages work and how to avoid them exactly.