There is only one brand of mens body care items that you should use: Clarins
http://us.clarins.com/main.cfm?sub=5
Yes it's costly, but 100% well worth it.
for exfoliants:
http://us.clarins.com/main.cfm?menurubID=26
check out their site and try their products. This is no bullshit type product. Their stuff actually works.