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Originally posted by galleryseek
imagine your girl starts workin at a new place and naturally, throughout the first week she mentions how nice or mean different co-workers are... and she mentions one guy, "mike" happens to be really nice... and outta no where for the hella it you ask "is he cute?" (just to be stupid, expecting her to say No, like she always has).. and all the sudden she pauses.. gets flustered a bit, and says "will you get mad if i'm honest?" .. so you say "no" (like you have to).. and she says, "well yes"
well, that happened to me yesterday... we've been together for nearly 2 years and never really had to deal with this situation.. the idea that you aren't the only she has a second nature attraction to...
so now its kinda fucked up for me, knowing she has to work with this guy who she finds nice and "cute" nearly every day. which has probably been a scenario for her (just like everyone else) who interacts with society, but now its just different because i KNOW.
but we talked about it for awhile n' she just has a "problem" (but i guess you could say its a good problem ;) ) where she will never lie... n' assured me theres nothing to worry about.
would this make you guys uncomfortable? i think its probably a natural male instinct to feel this way, which makes it hard to consciously come to terms with the fact that this happens.
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Never put all your eggs in one basket. Im not saying to cheat on her, but keep many female friends as well. Keep the door open so when the shit hits the fan you can quickly move on to the next.
Do not act your natural instinct to feel jealously, theres a good chance shes also giving you a "shit test" to see how you react to this. In one way she wants you to feel competition so she can feel she of some value but on the other hand if you freak out, you fail the test. Remember, every girl is replaceable.