dank

I just got icq and I am so confused. When someone icq's me I know how to respond but I don't know how to initiate icq. I know that i have 4 people on my icq list - people that I can somehow automatically click on to see if they are on line.

I don't know where to go to punch in someone elses icq number to try to contact them and I don't even know what my own icq number is or where to find it...

Any one help me with this?
I'm very new at all this.
I'm just a porn photographer learning how to expand to online media and I'm stll pretty new with all this.

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