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I have loaned small amounts to friends, but I really never done it a lot. I usually just made up some kind of lame excuse about how I didnt have it. But when it comes to family I dont do loans, I give money, if they can pay me back and want to, they can, if they cant or just dont want to, I dont care.
I sure know I have had some really rough times and god bless my grandma, she has bailed my ass out a few times. I dont even ask her for it, if she knows I need money she gives it to me, I have to keep some things secret from her so she wont give me money, because I cant stand taking her money, makes me feel like shit, and its like pulling teeth to get her to take any money when you try to pay her back.
To me if you aint got family, you aint got shit. So when I am doing good, its no skin off my back to help family out, and its also nice to know that if it comes down to it they are gonna be there for me too.
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