uggg, I have at least 20k out that friends have borrowed.
The thing that kills me the most if that they seem to think that because I have a nice lifestyle that I dont need to be paid back!
Friendship is definitely more important than money BUT one girl borrowed 3k to pay off a credit card before she got married because her husband is an asshole and she didnt want him to know about her debt. So, she is a teacher in Arkansas and probably makes about two bucks a year. She had a baby about a year ago so I was going to let te loan go but then she told me how she got her tiny dog its own carrying case/bag. Grrrrrrrrr! I started to pester her and she borrowed 500 from her mom to give to me but thats it.
I have definitely learned my lesson! For anyone reading this....DO NOT LOAN MONEY!
Its very difficult especially when you are young and doing well and your friends are broke as a joke but its not your problem!
Pay for dinner or drinks or whatever if you want to but no loans
