I recently ran across this page:
http://www.oldernudebabes.com/blacklist.html
And it made me think about what we in the industry define as "cheating" or "scamming".
Just because someone does'nt immediately abide by your "rules", or caters to or strokes your ego does not make them a scammer or cheater.
Think before you type, people's reputations can be destroyed with a single sentence from the right person.
Someone who STEALS from you, is rightfully called a cheater or a scammer.
What would you officially call someone a cheater for?