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I'm female and I watched porn when I was in jr high around 13 or 14, and I turned out fine. I bet all kids saw some graphic stuff already around that age. I was smart enough to never get caught though. Just ignore it, and pretend it never happened.
Also, don't ever make it seem to your daughter that "sex is bad" or "masturbation is bad". My mom was like that when I was younger, she always emphasized that "sex is dirty" and she still made me close my eyes at lame love scenes on prime time tv (not even cable, just people kissing and making out!) when I was 16-17 yrs old. Don't have double standards when raising your kids, female sexuality is normal. You don't want a daughter to think that sex is dirty and to be ashamed of her body.
We still aren't close to this day and I still cannot talk to her about ANYTHING at all, let alone sex.
Kids will have ISSUES later in life if they are always brought up to believe that "sex is bad". That goes for daughters too!! Sex is normal and healthy. I think it's not healthy for parents to always make it seem like such a bad thing, like my mom did.
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