Well, him being 9 is a different story, but again, I had no clue how old he was. As far as I'm concerned, he seems fine.
But again, the last thing I forgot to mention is that you have to make sure he's happy. That is something you should monitor the most. If he is very active in sports, and has a lot of friends, then he is most likely happy. Heck I applaud your efforts. I wish I was like him growing up. I wasn't, not even close. My parents never had me join up in recreational activities. They always had high expectations of me. They never really did anything but tell me what to do and yell at me. Sure they loved me, but they didn't raise me like they should've. And the end, it hurt me big time. My only friends growing up were trouble makers. A lot of them are in jail, most of them are messed up from drugs, and none of them lived normal happy lives like your son. I never really got to hang out with people in high school because I ditched those bad friends and concentrated on school. I eventually gave up. I never did drugs or alcohol, and I'm very lucky for that reason. But one reason why I never did anything like that is because I didn't have anyone to do it with. As far as sports are concerned, I played them, but I never was anything more than someone with good potential. Anyways, my suggestions, now that I look at them, are just based around ideas that I wish someone would've told my parents growing up. I just felt very stressed out growing. Heck, I'm a lot younger than you might think, so everything is fresh in my mind. But remember, just keep your son happy.
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