Search Engines (at least some) rank you by Link Popularity...so the more links you have pointed to your site, the higher you rate.
That may be why they insist on a recip.
Truth be told, they would do better having text links pointing back to them, the spiders read the text, and you will rank higher if you have 1,000 links all saying the same keywords...
Just a thought!
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