Let me just say something about women and orgasms here...
It is my opinion that a lot of women's problems with orgasms is not the men (or women) that they are with, but their own personal issues. I have met plenty of women that can not have orgasms with a partner but can do so when playing alone. That is an emotional/psychological problem that they have!
Sure lots of men suck in bed, but it is true that you have to be pretty damn bad to go down on a woman for 20 minutes and not have her get off. If that is the case, she has a problem allowing herself to orgasm.
Thats just my
