Okay, here's my opinion.
Regarding the first situation, yes, I would classify that as rape. I believe this because she had no say, and unlike the sex club example she did not consent to sex with this guy. If she were to find out at a later date that this person had sex with her she may feel violated and this could have some traumatic repercussions.
Regarding Babagirl's case I also believe this is rape. Since you said no many times, and only consented when you became afriad for your own safety. If this is a true story I am very sorry for you and hope you talk to the police about it.
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