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Originally posted by InsaneMidget
What would you do?
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Insane, here are a few questions that you need to ask yourself that will ultimatley make you feel better, or worse..
How old are you? How old were you when you started dating? How many girls did you date before her? Were you planning on getting married some time soon, or was it just a long fling? Did you think it was going to last forever?
If you're a young guy, and she was only the third or fourth person you ever dated, be happy! Time heals ALL wounds... You will find yourself in a few weeks, maybe months, dating other people and expierencing things that you never knew were possible.
Relationships only restrict people...if that is the way you want to live your life(a family man who is dedicated to making one woman in your life happy, even if it means sacrificing things that you love to do), then I'm sorry for your loss. But understand this: After being in a relationship for so long, once you come out, you feel lost and out of place.
What you need to do is put down the damn Vodka and go out with some friends. Vodka or weed or any shit like that is only going to make you feel worse. It's not going to take the pain away.
Don't go out on the rebound right away. Don't go get a hooker. Have a 'boys night out'.... Go to the club, but not with intentions of picking up on other girls. And for god sake, stay away from anything that will remind you of her.
Live your life as it comes to you. Don't wait for things to happen. Go on about your business. You never know what will come along. It may have been for the best.
Just my
