Give her a gift certificate to a really nice day spa for women. Dont be cheap, let her get the whole works, massage, facial, makeover etc.. Then its off to dinner at a resturant that you have to dress to get in.
Wine before & after dinner, arrange to have the flowers delivered during desert.
Do not talk about sports, porn, old girlfriends nor ask if she "wants to fuck".
Rent a video, not porno, but a "chick flick"
that she has been wanting to see & watch it with her without making any comments about it being stupid. This is better if you can snuggle up with her in front of the fireplace while watching.
The day after Valentines, give her a gift certificate to a maid service & have them come in & clean her apt. or house, do the laundry etc. Also, more flowers the day after
with a note thanking her for a wonderful evening. (even if you didnt get laid.) "Great blowjob" is not repeat not an approiate compliment at this time.
One week later, more flowers to celebrate the "anniversery" of your wonderful evening together.
WARNING... After 2 weeks be prepared for all her girlfriends to start flirting with you. She will bragg & you will get the reputation of a world class lover.
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