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Tam · 01-31-2004, 10:21 PM

Oh boy, this could be interesting. And I am not so sure I really know what to say, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot.

On the business side of me, I would like to consider myself pretty damn honest and forthright in my business dealings. Some people may not always like what I have to say and I am not above firing (or hiring) someone based on personal feelings or friendships. If they can do their job and they can be loyal and professional, then I can work with just about anyone, but try and cheat me or those I am dealing with and all bets are off. On a scale of where I see myself in the ladder of success? Financially it's shit right now, starting up a new company is hell........ but on all other aspects, I consider myself pretty damn successful. I don't lie, cheat, or steal and people pretty much always know where they stand with me. I have the ability to seperate friendships with business, and this pisses some people off at me and it's seen as my being a bitch, but professionalism and consistancy and honesty are my best qualities. No I don't always make the right decisions, but who does? And some of the decisions aren't always the most popular, but I don't lie and I don't cheat, and that to me, makes me successful. I can and do work as hard as any man, woman or child and don't mind getting my hands dirty and jump in and help anyone if they need it, IF they are helping themselves, if they don't? I have no need to proceed in the aid or relationship.

PERSONAL?? I am a little more, no A LOT less self confident than I am in my business side. Oh, when it comes to caring and compassion, I am right at the top, but as for personal stuff, I am pretty insecure in my own abilities and talent and strengths. BUT I am loyal as a mother, wife and as a friend. If I care about someone enough to give them my loyalties, that's for good, and isn't taken lightly. If I am needed, I am right there to lend a hand, ear or whatever is needed to help.

On BOTH sides, piss me off and that's the end of it and one of my biggest weaknesses either way, piss me off and it is pretty intense. I get frustrated very easily, but it takes A LOT to piss me off and when I get pissed, it's eternal and I DO hold grudges, I'd love to say I don't, bt reality has it here, and it just falls that way. Betrayal is the worst thing you can do to me on ANY level, once I am betrayed I can get pretty vile and generally do.

I don't take my battles pubic, it isn't my style, but pretty much, 99% of the time, you will know how I feel about you and where you stand without having to ask me, once I get enough, I can't hide my emotions and it shows all over my face, my voice and my typing in this case. I am one of those people that cannot under ANY circumstances find it in me to be nice to anyone if they have pissed me off and/or betrayed me. And if betrayal is bad enough, I'll go to the ends of the earth to make someone's life a living hell. THAT is my biggest weakness........ and try as I might, I can't control it, I don't know how to be nice to someone who's gotten on my bad side, no matter how hard I try, the shit just screams out of me and I can't control it.

I am not fake on ANY level........ I am just me, love me or hate me, I am just who I am, ME!

ok, NOW, we won't go into the PMS me, that fucking side is way outta control. LMAO

01-31-2004, 10:21 PM
Tam Rude Bitch Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,508	Oh boy, this could be interesting. And I am not so sure I really know what to say, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot. On the business side of me, I would like to consider myself pretty damn honest and forthright in my business dealings. Some people may not always like what I have to say and I am not above firing (or hiring) someone based on personal feelings or friendships. If they can do their job and they can be loyal and professional, then I can work with just about anyone, but try and cheat me or those I am dealing with and all bets are off. On a scale of where I see myself in the ladder of success? Financially it's shit right now, starting up a new company is hell........ but on all other aspects, I consider myself pretty damn successful. I don't lie, cheat, or steal and people pretty much always know where they stand with me. I have the ability to seperate friendships with business, and this pisses some people off at me and it's seen as my being a bitch, but professionalism and consistancy and honesty are my best qualities. No I don't always make the right decisions, but who does? And some of the decisions aren't always the most popular, but I don't lie and I don't cheat, and that to me, makes me successful. I can and do work as hard as any man, woman or child and don't mind getting my hands dirty and jump in and help anyone if they need it, IF they are helping themselves, if they don't? I have no need to proceed in the aid or relationship. PERSONAL?? I am a little more, no A LOT less self confident than I am in my business side. Oh, when it comes to caring and compassion, I am right at the top, but as for personal stuff, I am pretty insecure in my own abilities and talent and strengths. BUT I am loyal as a mother, wife and as a friend. If I care about someone enough to give them my loyalties, that's for good, and isn't taken lightly. If I am needed, I am right there to lend a hand, ear or whatever is needed to help. On BOTH sides, piss me off and that's the end of it and one of my biggest weaknesses either way, piss me off and it is pretty intense. I get frustrated very easily, but it takes A LOT to piss me off and when I get pissed, it's eternal and I DO hold grudges, I'd love to say I don't, bt reality has it here, and it just falls that way. Betrayal is the worst thing you can do to me on ANY level, once I am betrayed I can get pretty vile and generally do. I don't take my battles pubic, it isn't my style, but pretty much, 99% of the time, you will know how I feel about you and where you stand without having to ask me, once I get enough, I can't hide my emotions and it shows all over my face, my voice and my typing in this case. I am one of those people that cannot under ANY circumstances find it in me to be nice to anyone if they have pissed me off and/or betrayed me. And if betrayal is bad enough, I'll go to the ends of the earth to make someone's life a living hell. THAT is my biggest weakness........ and try as I might, I can't control it, I don't know how to be nice to someone who's gotten on my bad side, no matter how hard I try, the shit just screams out of me and I can't control it. I am not fake on ANY level........ I am just me, love me or hate me, I am just who I am, ME! ok, NOW, we won't go into the PMS me, that fucking side is way outta control. LMAO __________________ Get in Touch on Telegram if you need a hardworker - (since 1999) - All About Me!