One of my oldest and best friends developed feelings for my girl over a year or so (we had been together for 3 years)... Then one day our relationship was on the rocks and he was right in there

He claimed he was in love with her and I should forget about her and be happy for him...
This all came out after I moved out with her, got a new place, and he moved in. I kicked him out within 2 weeks, she told him to get lost, and neither of us (or anyone from our circle of friends) have spoken a word to him in 8 months.
Oh, the girl and I got back together a couple of months later, and we're on the rocks again.
