Buff,
Looks like U have a good thing goin...don't ruin it. Since most/all men have the silly fantacy of 2 women when it really is not all it's cut out to be (at least with a serious partner)...think, twice the biching/moaning haha and bills;). I thought it was all cool them fucking aroung while I was working, kinda turned me on. On every occasion I was in a 3 some I have yet to have a positive ending. Lost one from the jelousy thing, lost another from our sex lives not being as good without the third party (my bad, got too greedy), I think one turned lezbo...still waiting on the results. Good for her though..takes expierience to find one's path.
Moral of the story is that letting another person in your bed complicates things emensly. Best advice 2 u bro is that if u want to partake in a 3some is do it on an hourly rate. Test with strangers, see how the water feels. Does your perfomance have some stamina? U may find that u are unable to handle 2 women and find yourself jellous on the sideline. OK it may have happened once or twice. But they won't stop when u finish and I'll tell ya it aint easy controling him (Mr. Winkey) when 2 fine women are fightin for the load.
If u turn the pages too fast they may rip. You can't rush to the next chapter as each unfolds a new plot. What I'm saying is stick with the story and see where it takes you. She may soon want do this for u. Don't push your fanticies upon her especially when it involves another. If need be seek your fullfilment elsewhere and see if that is what u want to bring home. It takes a very mature mind to do what u are proposing to her. 32-20...Make or break my friend. It's not that easy to find a new gem like the one u got, and when u have a good thing I'm sure the next one won't wanna change or fuck with your relationship either.
Keep us posted on your thoughts and any turn of events.
all the best,
CM