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Originally posted by PrivateIvy
Completely ignoring them usually does the trick. Most just get off on any form of communication with you-good or bad.
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE and they will go away eventually
Ivy
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Damn...I feel for you. I had (still have) a stalker..he is a fuckin' freak who's old enough to be my father but for 2 years has made my life miserable. I WAS a moderator at a non-adult board and he started stalking me there and hasn't stopped. He claims he loves me, is my "spiritual twin" blah, blah, fucking blah.
I've done everything, including threaten him with the authorities, my male friends have threatened to kick the shit out of him, etc. Nothing has worked. The only thing I am doing is ignoring him, blocking his email addy's, I no longer hang out at the board where I was a moderator for 3 years, and for the most part the contact has stopped.
The mentality of a true stalker is not normal. They believe in what they are doing and they believe they are right in everything they say. Most "normal" people would stop doing what their doing when you threaten them with the authorities, but a true stalker won't. The best thing you can do is ignore him and not feed into his fantasies by continuing to contact him with threats, etc. Any contact with a stalker only feeds on his delusions and he will continue with his contact with you. (Or she, since there are just as many crazy female stalkers out there as men).
Good luck to you.
