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Originally posted by goBigtime
(some) Women love drama, abuse, and validation.
Going after men that are taken guaratees it all at some point.
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Great point!! Some women do like the validation that comes with having a guy who has a wife, even better if she is someone you hate (which means you obviously admire so much that it kills ya) and/or someone successful etc.
Women ALSO get a kind of validation when they can save a lost puppy and 99.9% of married guys make out their relationship to be hell. She doesnt like sex. Shes sick all the time. She spends all her time with the kids. What ever. They play on a woman's love of saving the lost puppy. Men are not always as stupid as we think
I dont do married guys...only becuase I would not want that done to me. But the quote that if he does it for you he will do it to you is right on the money. Its about respect. If I get together with a guy, and if I am going to be in love then I make sure I have a relationship where cheating is 1. not necessary and/or 2. we talk about it all the time, someone ADULT enough to talk about things. I believe in open marriages as long as both sides are allowed equal priviledges and both sides want it.