Quote:
Originally posted by Project-Shadow
|
I see this and I see a little girl having the fucking time of her life, she doesn't care that she is heavy and she doesn't care what others think, she is just having a really good time, and it's awesome to see in children these days.
It is her parents that should be taking responsibility for her being heavy, not her...... she's just a happy kid!! Or appears that way in this pic.
I agree with sarah here, I never in my life had a weight issue til I had kids and then I took this job on and have been on my big fat ass for 4 years....... in MY case, it is my own damn fault and I can control it when I decide to. BUT I have a step mother that struggled with weight her entire life........ we are estranged and have been for many many years, but she finnaly went to seek help on this issue and found out that her body was turning certyain things she ate into sugar (don't ask me, I don't know all the details), and she wasn't going to be able to lose the weight no matter what she did.... meds, excercise, eating.... none of it was going to help her. She was so fucking bitter and angry that she was impossible to live with when I was growing up........ BUT I seen her about a year ago and you know? She is one happy motherfucker, she found out there was nothing she can do, and it isn't in fact HER fault, and she is now about as happy as I have ever seen anyone.
Bottom line, you don't have to be skinny to be beautiful and happy..... if it is something you can control, then control it, if it isn't then BE FUCKING HAPPY.
Maybe this little lady's parents HAVE taken steps with her and they didn't work, so they are just "making her happy and well adjusted in her own reality"...... if this is the case, HOORAY for them.........
Those kids that are allowed to just eat at will and no control being taken, have far more issues than WEIGHT......... and THAT should be dealt with first and THEN the weight problem, not vice versa in my opinion.
Be happy in your own skin, regardless of how much or little you have of it, and the rest of your life falls into place. Worry about what people think of you and you have far more things to worry about than how you LOOK. THIS little girl looks happy in her own skin, this is a good thing for her and I hope she continues to be that way, she'll shine no matter what SIZE she is.
I have seen skinny people with far more worries about life in general than I ever have an overweight person who is happy just being who they are.