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Originally posted by jennym
If she is worth-a-crap, she will be feeling terrible about lying to you, and not getting you a gift. She probably lied in the first place because she felt bad about not being able to get you anything. At least this means she is not a totally selfish person. So, sit her down, in private, and tell her that you believe there is not really a gift. You do not have to tell her someone told you. Tell her that it doesn't matter. Tell her you did not get her a gift expecting one in return. She will most likely tell you the truth at that point. If not, then you will have to go with the flow.
Good luck.
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Jenny, would you say a Starbucks type coffee shop is a private enough setting? She works retail in a shopping mall, so i was thinking of taking her to a coffee shop to talk.