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In all honesty, I don't watch porn, nor do I like it, soft, hard or anything else and neither does my husband. We don't cheat, we don't swing and we don't bring a 3rd party in for interest.
Our sex life is based upon each other and we are perfectly content and very happy with it that way. At one time I thought almost every couple was like us but now I know that probably very few are. People are welcome to do what they want with their sex lives and their relationships but for us, we take security out of the fact that it is one thing in our lives that remains a very personal and private affair.
I know the question is now what am I doing here? Money. Husband took the what was the only job available in his expertise at the time and it was in this industry. We make the most of our opportunities. Mind you we have met a lot of awsome people and have also found some people like us that are not offended by most porn but it is just not what they are into but do it because it pays the bills. We also have a mainstream business too, so not all of our eggs are in one basket.
If I had to choose, I would say softcore, it is about leaving something to the imagination. Course, I don't think my opinion counts.
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