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GonePhishing · 01-07-2004, 02:28 AM

Sometimes... My god, she can be a spoiled little brat. I bought her the house she wanted, took her brother in, paid for her college, and now she wants to sell the place to move closer to her mom.

BTW - we only live 1hr from her mom. I bought the house her b/c it was the closest we could be to her mom and her school. Now that she graduated, she wants me to uproot from my job, my life (which has been built around taking care of her) to move back to her home town.

I love her to death, but she doesn't work, and has really only demanded her way. So tonight, she tells me this while I am trying to finish a project. If the only stress and inperfection I had in my life was that I wished I was closer to my parents I would be a happy person. She has had everything handed to her without having to sweat for it one bit.

So, I told her if our life is not important. If she doesn't want to find a job up here... If she is really unhappy, then she can go. I love her, but our life has to be about the two of us, and then family and not the other way around. I have done as she wanted our whole relationship, and have tried to accomadate her wishes as best as possible.

Today, I think she will have to decide where I stand in her life. Seriously, if she can't put our survival before her wishes to love closer to home, she can leave. My life needs to be about family, but not so much that it is going to force me to move, and change my career.

Damn... I'm pissed about how little she appreciates. So, this it... There is a line in the sand and decision to be made. If she can't try to be happy or make the best of not always getting what she wants... She can go. I would be sad... But I will not live like this. There needs to be balance.

01-07-2004, 02:28 AM
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	I love my fiance but... Sometimes... My god, she can be a spoiled little brat. I bought her the house she wanted, took her brother in, paid for her college, and now she wants to sell the place to move closer to her mom. BTW - we only live 1hr from her mom. I bought the house her b/c it was the closest we could be to her mom and her school. Now that she graduated, she wants me to uproot from my job, my life (which has been built around taking care of her) to move back to her home town. I love her to death, but she doesn't work, and has really only demanded her way. So tonight, she tells me this while I am trying to finish a project. If the only stress and inperfection I had in my life was that I wished I was closer to my parents I would be a happy person. She has had everything handed to her without having to sweat for it one bit. So, I told her if our life is not important. If she doesn't want to find a job up here... If she is really unhappy, then she can go. I love her, but our life has to be about the two of us, and then family and not the other way around. I have done as she wanted our whole relationship, and have tried to accomadate her wishes as best as possible. Today, I think she will have to decide where I stand in her life. Seriously, if she can't put our survival before her wishes to love closer to home, she can leave. My life needs to be about family, but not so much that it is going to force me to move, and change my career. Damn... I'm pissed about how little she appreciates. So, this it... There is a line in the sand and decision to be made. If she can't try to be happy or make the best of not always getting what she wants... She can go. I would be sad... But I will not live like this. There needs to be balance. __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...